Is it safe to live with someone you met online?

Finding a roommate online is as safe as the steps you take to vet them. The internet didn't invent bad roommates — it just widened the pool, which means more great matches and more people worth screening out. The goal isn't to avoid online searching; it's to verify before you commit.

1. Verify identity. A live video call defeats most fakes; an in-person meeting is better. Be wary of anyone who avoids both.
2. Meet in a public place first before any home visit, and tell a friend where you'll be.
3. Ask for and check references — a previous roommate or landlord.
4. Use platforms with verification where you can, and keep early conversations on-platform.
5. Never send money before viewing and meeting — the rule that defeats nearly every scam.
6. Trust red flags. Evasiveness, pressure, and inconsistent stories are reasons to walk away.

• Put a roommate agreement in writing so expectations and money are clear.
• Keep your room lockable and your important documents secure.
• Get renter's insurance — it's cheap and covers your belongings.
• Keep communication open; address small issues before they grow.