What are the biggest roommate red flags to watch for?

• Vague or dodgy about budget. Someone who won't give a straight rent number often can't afford it.
• Wants to stay off the lease. No accountability if they stop paying or cause damage.
• Pushes to skip a written agreement. “We don't need anything in writing” usually benefits the person saying it.
• Pressure to pay a deposit fast, especially before you've seen the place or met in person — a classic scam signal.

• Blames every past roommate. If everyone they've lived with was “crazy,” the common factor is them.
• Won't talk about habits. Evasiveness about cleaning, schedules, or guests now means surprises later.
• Disrespects boundaries early. Pushy, over-familiar, or ignores your stated limits before move-in.
• Inconsistent story. Details about work, income, or why they're moving that keep changing.

• Refuses a video call or in-person meeting.
• Can't or won't verify their identity.
• Rushes you to decide “because others are interested.”
• The rent or deal seems too good for the location — often bait.

Any single flag can have an innocent explanation. A cluster of them — vague on money, evasive on habits, and rushing you — is a clear signal to walk away. A good roommate match should be able to answer direct questions directly. If they can't, that is the answer.